How To Find Your Dream Girl
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Caution To Women : May Cause Irritation
To find a great girlfriend is like finding a needle in haystacks these days. Modern women are smart enough to ‘make-up' their appearances and personalities in front of you until it's too late. But as the old saying goes : you are who you are. We men actually can identify their true colors by certain insignificant habits that they will not bother to cover up. Here's a few tips for you :
1) In a bus or commuter or any public transport, if an old man (or pregnant woman or a child or handicapped person or injured person) enters in and she's not willing to offer her seat in a heartbeat, then you better stay away from this type by a mile. This type of woman is lack of compassion and selfish.
2) Observe how she handles her conversation in public. If she's talks and laughs loudly, it's not a sign that she's friendly and possesses warmth personality. It's actually a sign that she's the type that cannot keep any secrets conveyed to her. All your shortcomings will be broadcast to the world in the blink of an eye.
3) Eavesdrop the details of her conversation with her friends. If she's keen to criticize everything in any topics discussed, this is a type that can never be grateful and will not appreciate anything you do or give to her. She'll thankful to you for your gifts and then throws them in a bin when you're not looking.
4) Observe carefully when she's doing group tasks or assignments. If she wants them to be executed according to HER WAY, then you'll get yourself a queen control. Steer clear from this type. Unless, of course if you love a dominatrix.
5) A woman who reveals too much flesh can never be a great girlfriend. Even if she's soft spoken and gentle, what she wears is actually who she is. This type is either a slut or rebellious. She's trouble with capital T, trust me.
6) Take a close look to her belongings. If a PRADA retail manager greets her like his best buddy, you should realize by now that she's a high-maintenance chick. This type may be a gold digger. Then again may be not. But one thing's for sure : You will have to spend a lot!
7) Last but the one you must be cautioned the most is... the type that their parents always praise them to the point of absurdness (is there a word for ‘absurdness'?). Well, it's a known fact that parents are biased towards their children. It's good... but not for you! Praising their daughter twenty-four-seven is a sign of covering her true colors, actually. And you can bet it's not a great one.
So there you go. To tell you the truth, there's no such thing as ‘great girlfriend'. Belldandy does not exist. This is not an ideal world. Hey, we men have our shortcomings too, right? So, our women are not perfect. But at least they're not a disaster like the above mentioned, right?
Looking forward to hear you comments!
You can find other great tips in this sites too :
http://americaninventorspot.com/dolls_to_avoid
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/55099/8_types_of_women_men_should_avoid_dating.
http://www.askmen.com/dating/dating_top_ten/58_dating_list.html
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This article is nothing but true. Thumbs up
ha really true! makes a lot of sense esp. looking at the other girls at my school!
This is a pretty true article.
However on your last comment, I believe you don't give good men enough credit or good women enough credit. Yes we all have faults but that doesn't mean we all should not try to strive for excellence and eliminate these faults. It also should be a requirement to be with the same type of excellent person. No Prada required! ;-)
That is some Dang good advice. Wish I'd taken it...
I'd say that this is a relatively true article, being a girl myself, that says a lot. But when trying to find a good girlfriend, you can also tell a lot by the first couple conversations, instead of stalking her in public, hah. If shes constantly bringing the conversation back to herself, walk away, no questions asked, everything is about her, no other explanation. Like most people say, girls are complicated, and its hard to pin them right away. But so far so good, you look like you know what youre talking about.
another girl who mostly agrees. my boyfriend actually likes when i do 5. as long as it's clear that i'm his (and my slutty clothes is how we met in the first place anyway, he likes us like that) :-) of course, i am considered trouble by many, so your 5. still may be true, but apparently i'm worth putting up with for 10+ years (oh, and i'm still regularly wearing slutty clothes) :-) if i caught a guy doing 3. he would be sooooo out!
You know what? My dreamgirl would actually fulfill all the points (expect for no. 6 maybe). It's funny to see how many people agree with the bullshit that has been written here. Values are a matter of choise, not a matter of good and bad. Get your freakin' heads around that for once!
I loved reading this article. Men should know what type of lady to date to avoid being disappointing.I don't like seeing some women who reveal too much flesh.
I looked at the girls at my school and compared them to some of the sections. He's right
Nicely said. And i really like part 5
Good article, dude!
I find the things to look for are usually pretty much obvious when you think about it :
1. If the past isn't who you are then where did it come from? Did somebody else make it up? People who are afraid of their past are afraid you'll find out who they actually are. It's called habitual behaviour patterns look for the things that they do which contradict the things that they say. Especially those they repeat, remember people want you to think the best of them and whilst its never good to look purely at the bad you have to realise there's a good chance they will repeat a constant again.
2. Anybody who says 'i won't change for anybody' is high up on the muppet factor what they actually mean is they are lazy and self centered. Life is about change and growth, anybody who refuses to accept adapting and change in a relationship is going to be a long time single.
3. 'i don't do this normally' yeah right, anybody who has to say this is afraid you already know they do it all the time.
4. Confidence comes from experience. If someone is highlighting the room watch the way they interact with people, do they catch the gaze of everyone giving them attention? Do they hug lots of guys and laugh, flirt, chat with everyone? These are seriously bad signs if you're looking for a girl who will be with you at the wkends instead of buying another new dress for the next big social event.
5. Short term ex relationships, frequent changes, any constant pattern like this shows a sign of poor focus and limited commitment. This kind of person will struggle to work at things with you so don't be surprised if when the going gets tough she gets going and is gone on to the next one.
6. Being glued to social sites is a definitive sign of poor inner control and a scattered mind. If you really like the thought of your life together being frequently discussed amongst their web buddies then your on the right track. But remember if you aren't allowed to chat to girls on your phone whilst their chatting to the guy mate they've 'known for aaaaages' its going to be a do as I say not as I do freak zone. An honest person has nothing to hide so I'm sure she won't have any issue with you reading the messages?
7. Trust is important in a relationship but it should be earned and not given nievely. Genuine people will have no issue with earning your trust just the same as you in return will earn theirs. If you notice any flair ups and hyper sensitive responses to this then take that as a warning you ignore on your own back.
8. Alcohol doesn't change people it actually removes a persons self monitoring behavior and gives you an insight into the true nature of a persons capabilities. Nobody is going to do something they aren't capable of already just because they got a little drunk. Drinking on a regular basis is also a strong sign of emotional problems or immaturity and the inability to deal with life or themselves in a mature way. Depending on your personal ideology its something you may or may not comprehend.
9. It's not what she wears its the way she wears it. Is actually very true most of the time. A girl with a stable emotional structure and a strong sense of self respect can make even the shortest skirt come across as respectable and well groomed. Where as a local attention seeker and sex stroller will flaunt it even in jeans. So look out for what she says and does, if its you she's proud to be with that's where her eyes will be, if on the other hand you get off on a girl hitting the party street without you looking like she's a promo babe for the latest street walker magazine then you won't really ever need to ask why.
10. Regardless of all the above always trust in your own instincts. They'll be the voice of inner knowledge that comes before the voices of other peoples opinions, self doubts, hopes and what's going on in your pants. Attraction is just a small part of why you find yourself talking to someone or falling over your tongue on the way to say something dumb she'll probably laugh at if your lucky. Girls expressions and body language signals are far more visible than most guys so learn to read them. But most of all listen to what shes saying, don't ask meaningless questions use this opportunity to find out about her, test her reactions to topics you dislike to see what you actually have in common. The songs people sing aren't just about the notes that are played, its the gaps between them that define the rythem which tells you if its a song you're really going to bother listening to again. And at the end of it all if she calls you judgemental just smile and say yeah but atleast I'm honest.
Best of luck guys!
... I talk and laugh loud, but that would be because I'm half deaf.
Tomche 4 years ago
Hi Damia, that would certainly help many. Good article